It isn't very hard to be attractive to men. A lot of the same principles that you like in men apply to you being attractive to them. There are a few easy things that most down-to-earth, attractive men look for in their women.



Steps

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    Groom yourself well. It is important that a woman grooms her body well. Shave your legs and armpits regularly, probably more private areas as well (however this is specific to the man who you are trying to attract, some guys like slightly different hair cuts downtown). Take showers daily, using feminine smelling products. Make sure your skin and face are soft, smooth, and free of blemishes (proactive and moisturizing lotions work). A lot of women focus on tanning or going to the tanning salon, however, the color of a girl's skin is not what attracts most guys, it is the touch.


  2. 2
    Use nice perfume. Nothing drives a guy wild like a good smelling girl. Do not over do it though. Just wear a light amount of a perfume that you like the scent of so that the guy can smell it when he is close to you. You do not want to wear so much that everyone can smell you when you walk into the room.
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    Work out. You like your guys fit right? Well surprise surprise, guy like their girls fit as well. Not only is being fit good for your appearance it is also good for your health. Girls might want to focus more on endurance and toning, not building muscle. Guys like trim, toned, slender girls. Being too skinny can be a turn off. Just do light muscle toning exercises for your legs, core, and arms. Several reps with a lower weight tones muscle without building much mass. Then do a good amount of cardio, like half hour to hour of treadmill or bike or elliptical. Go to the gym every day if you can, but at least 3 times a week. Get outside and get active. This will help you stay in shape and is good for psychological health as well. This is also attractive to guys; guys like a girl who knows how to have a good time.
  4. 4
    Dress well. Slutty and sexy are two very different things. No respectable guy likes a girl who dresses slutty. G stings should be reserved for strippers. Do not allow your bra to stick out of your shirt. A little cleavage is not a bad thing if you want to catch a guy's attention, but if you have more boob out of the shirt than in that sends a completely different message. However underwear is very important. Sexy underwear is very hot to any man. Pretty much any underwear that is form-fitting and feminine is attractive. The best kinds of underwear are boy-shorts, panties or bikini cut and conservative thongs. Nothing too crazy with four different kinds of strings and extravagant lace, this just gets distracting and takes away from your naturally beautiful feminine form. As far as the clothes you wear over the underwear, it is largely opinion-based as to what a guy likes. It is not bad to have a bit of your own unique style, but nothing crazy. Tighter clothes are generally more attractive. A nice pair of tight jeans, and a simple form fitting top is a killer combination. Simpler is usually better, however woman have a plethora of amazing clothing items out there so do not be afraid to mix it up. As long as the body the clothes are on is in shape, most styles will look good and define you as a person.
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    Be friendly and smile. Guys like a girl that they can have a good conversation and laugh with. Be outgoing but not boisterous. The same kind of charm you are attracted to in successful, confident, down to earth guys, are what guys are attracted to in women; you just need to add your feminine touch to it.
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    Be yourself. Once you have the look and style you are comfortable and confident with, just remember to be down to earth, honest, and have fun. That is why you are in this game right, to have fun and be happy? If you try to adopt a style or attitude to impress someone, they will eventually see through it because you will be constantly maintaining a persona, and they will see you as a weak individual. You must be happy and confident (but not cocky) with who you are because there are plenty of great guys out there who will like you for your personality, and in turn you will both be much happier.
 

Warnings

  • Do not wear too much makeup. Guys do not want a girl whose face looks like it has been painted on or she was raised by raccoons. A little bit of makeup is not a bad thing but do not over do it. A lot of guys like natural beauty over fake Hollywood glamor.